You can have the life that YOU want to live. All you need is a commitment to yourself, a sense of the future you want, and an Ontological coach with the skill and ability to guide you.
Good and effective coaching is a partnership between two people—you, and your coach. I am a qualified, experienced and professional coach who has worked with clients from a variety of industries and backgrounds. The list below details the top 25 ways I can help you live an easier life.
You can enlist me as your coach if you…
- Quietly shout, “Stop the ride. I want to get off!”—we can create space for you to think, reflect and live.
- Feel you are suffering and unable to ask for help to take care of what is needed in your life—we can explore ways that enable you to make effective requests for support.
- Want to organise, find and track what you know (and keep tabs on what you don’t)—we can design and implement solutions specifically for you.
- Think life would be better if you were only more of a “people person” or more extroverted—we can establish a comprehensive set of techniques for your confident communication with others.
- Feel like “a ship lost in the ocean” because you have little or no support for your job role—we can explore ways for you to “navigate” with ease.
- Procrastinate and fail to start important tasks—we can improve your efficiency and effectiveness without the need for a time management system.
- Are overwhelmed by new technologies and feel inadequate because of that—we can establish a base for your understanding and determine if there are ways you can use technology for your benefit.
- Know you need to have a difficult conversation with someone else but are unable to do so—we can develop an approach and provide you with support to carry it out.
- Love to learn for the pure joy and wonder of it—we can develop new ways to expand your learning and find exciting areas of interest.
- Prefer to leverage and provide real service to your networks—we can evolve you into an accomplished and confident networker.
- Believe in Respect, Integrity and Trust and want to be a strong example in the community—we can develop strength in standing up for what you believe in.
- Are an isolated business owner who yearns for understanding and an objective sounding board—we can engage each other in meaningful conversation.
- Require new options and a support structure to move forward—we can build an environment which will drive your success by increasing productivity and focus.
- Desire closure with a particular situation—we can develop within you understanding which leads to peace and acceptance as a platform for moving forward.
- Seek to build trust, motivation and accountability with others—we can introduce models for the management of commitment between you and other people.
- Have been asked to see the “big picture” and haven’t a clue where to start, or even what the “big picture” is—we can generate clarity for you.
- Must give truly constructive feedback to the people you manage—we can help you prepare the environment for doing so.
- Cannot understand why you “rub people the wrong way”—we can introduce techniques for increasing tolerance and compassion towards you.
- Believe leaders are made and not born—we can mature your leadership skills.
- Want to be a success at any moment in time—we can formulate statements of your “keys to success”.
- Are a person to whom “personal mastery” and “quality of life” are real goals—we can grow a life which supports you to attain them.
- Want to manage your moods and emotions in the moment—we can evolve understanding and techniques which work for you when you need them.
- Feel overcome by all that you need to do—we can help you to separate needs from wants and to manage any existing commitments to yourself or others.
- Struggle to learn—we can identify, then diminish, your enemies of learning.
- Need support to complete items in the “Quality of Life 100” or “Clean Sweep 100” assessments—we can cultivate a way of being which serves you in all areas of life.
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On reflection in 2025, this the public, marketing style version of What I can do for you.